Memorial Day is technically a day on which we honor those men and women who have died in service to our country. As I enjoyed my day off on Monday, I began thinking that we ought to use it – and every other day for that matter – to honor all of those who have served our country, living and dead, as well as those who are serving our country today.
Last week I flew south for business. I flew into Atlanta, as I have many times in the last several years, and I was again blown away by what I see every single time the escalator arrives at the baggage claim area: dozens of people with signs, flags and banners, there to welcome and celebrate any and every member of our armed services arriving home for what the banners call “Operation R & R”. Think about this for a minute. These are men and women who have taken time out of their own lives to help those soldiers, sailors and marines who are arriving for leave feel welcome and, perhaps more importantly, appreciated.
Several days later, I was set to return home, and I was on a flight out of Pensacola, Florida. On my flight were six active duty sailors, all dressed impeccably in their white uniforms. I should have spoken to the young men, asked them where they were headed or where they were coming from -- or at the very least, thanked them for their service. I didn’t, however, instead focusing on what I then deemed to be a crucial email on my Blackberry. When we landed, the flight attendant set us all straight when, while making her arrival comments over the PA system, she pointed out the sailors on our flight, and on behalf of herself and the crew, thanked them for their service. This prompted a round of applause from the passengers, an appropriate gesture, and one that should not have required the flight attendant's prompting.
This past weekend in New York City was Fleet Week, the annual event in several cities around the country when one or more military ships docks for the weekend. The sailors are then allowed to disembark and enjoy a few days of fun around the town, and residents of the city are in turn encouraged to tour the ships visiting. Naturally I saw several sailors around the city throughout the weekend, again, all sharply dressed in their whites. I seemingly should have learned my lesson from the airplane last week and made a point of at the very least thanking these men and women for serving our country, but for some reason, I didn’t, and I imagine in not speaking to them, I was among the vast majority of New Yorkers, and that’s wrong.
For the record, I happen to be a supporter of the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan. While I certainly don’t believe the conflicts have been perfectly waged or that the administration is without fault, I remain, in this case, in the minority in terms of my belief that we are doing the right thing and should continue to do so. I recognize, though, that the majority of Americans do not want the wars to continue, and many are angry with the administration and others for the way we entered these wars, and for how the conflicts have been handled since. But regardless of one’s view of why and how these wars began, they are the reality now – they are happening, and we are in them. And because they are happening, hundreds of thousands of men and women like you and me are spending months and in some cases years halfway around the world fighting on behalf of The United States of America. These sailors, soldier and Marines are husbands and wives, fathers and mothers, brothers and sisters. Many have careers in the private sector that they have had to leave when called up for service. These brave members of the armed forces did not have anything to do with why and how we got into the wars. They are simply following orders, and putting their lives in jeopardy on a daily basis.
So again, regardless of one’s view of the wars, or on the leaders who brought us into the wars, the military operations in Iraq and Afghanistan are happening, and we are in them. So on this Memorial Day, I committed myself to make sure I take those extra 30 seconds to thank a young sailor or soldier for his or her service, whether I see them on an airplane, on the streets of Manhattan, or elsewhere – this week, and for as long as our presence there continues. I would respectfully ask anyone who reads this to do the same. If you’re opposed to the wars or opposed to the administration that got us in them, set aside those political differences and that anger in the presence of a member of the armed services. Remember, after all, they did not choose to fight these wars and they bare no responsibility for our being there. Without question, they deserve our appreciation and respect, and the time and effort it takes us to show them that appreciation and respect is far less time and effort than they are spending in service to our country.
(This post can also be seen at Splice Today: http://splicetoday.com/)
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